Most of these people get slammed.

Контекст:

But ironically, their own excessive self-confidence "screws up relationships and marriages". Yet their downfall may finally teach them the wisdom of humility. Most of these people get slammed. "Then they change," concludes Dr. Sernberg.

И ещё хотела спросить: wisdom of humility переводится как благоразумие скромности или как?