назло маме отморозить уши(to do something that is meant to harm someone else but that also harms the person who does it: You can refuse to talk to her if you like, but you're just cutting off your nose to spite your face.КГА)
глубоко ранить(To cut someone to the quick means to deeply wound or distress them.: You see, I had decided – rightly or wrongly – to grow a moustache, and this had cut Jeeves to the quick. He couldn't stick the thing at any price, and I had been living ever since in an atmosphere of bally disapproval till I was getting jolly well fed up with it. (P.G. Wodehouse)ART Vancouver)
