чаи гонять(to meet and talk with someone in a friendly way (Merriam-Webster): But Rubenstein had an insight that wound up defining Carlyle: Rich people and powerful people like to rub elbows with one another. (Washington Post)ART Vancouver)
вывести из себя('to do or say things that annoy someone' (Macmillan): "Don't talk to him about his ex. He can be quite mean if you rub him the wrong way."ART Vancouver)